Infected Mushroom at The Monarch Theater

The Flier

The Flier

This past weekend I went to the event above at The Monarch Theater  The concert was great, and Infected Mushroom kicked ass.However, at the after party I noticed some things that really made me crazy and I want to go ahead and point out some big mistakes when playing at a dungeon party.

First: Never touch anyone without their consent. I don’t care if they are currently being fucked (as one girl was). That does not make them a slut, nor does it make them easy. They are not yours to touch. CONSENT is important.

Second: Someone that shouldn’t have even been at the party grabbed my riding crop and hit a girl he didn’t know. So unless you have permission, hands off other people’s toys! No, you can not “barrow it for a second” you enormous douche bag.

Third: Read the rules. To be fair, Devious Minds productions only had the rules for the club in ONE secluded corner and no one really gave a lecture before the play party started about behavior. Personally I think you don’t belong at a dungeon party unless you’ve looked into the rules for that sort of thing beforehand, but I also think Devious Minds could have done a MUCH BETTER job of making the rules available.

I understand that a party like this will always attract one or two assholes, but when someone is able to take their camera out and take a video in a closed play party without consent of the people involved, the security is not doing their job and the people involved are not doing their job. I had to call out several people on my own because no one who put the party together or who worked there was doing anything to stop all the bad behavior.

It was my first Devious Minds event. I am not in Arizona long, so I probably won’t end up at another Devious Minds event. I can’t judge a promotions company off of one event because that wouldn’t be fair. But, I think the after-hours play party could have done with a lot more supervision…

The Crowd Watching Infected Mushroom

The Crowd Watching Infected Mushroom

To The Desert I Go…

This is the desert of Arizona.

This is the desert of Arizona.

So the scene in Arizona is wild. There is a lot of hook suspensions and small fetlife munches on a Tuesday night draw about 90 people. It’s a scene unlike any other I have seen.

The big thing I came here for is the Horns and Halos Fetish prom. I have been to fetish proms that were really awesome, but none as good as the ones in Arizona. I don’t know why that is, but these kids really know how to get some serious kink on, while drawing great bands and vendors as well.

The crowd cheering for Element a440 at a previous prom.

The crowd cheering for Element a440 at a previous prom.

There are usually strippers, stage shows, vendors, and all mannar of fun kinky things to do. A boy I met the other day told me he brought a paddle to the last Horns and Halos prom, and ended up with a line of girls waiting to be spanked. That’s the kind of stuff that happens at these proms.

Just a pretty girl on a stripper pole...

Just a pretty girl on a stripper pole…

When I was in Korea, I threw some small fetish proms that were fun, but barely broke 100 people. The Horns and Halos proms are so big that they rent an entire hotel for the after-hours party.

Side-stage kink/fetish show

Side-stage kink/fetish show

I’m really excited to be here for the next event. I’ll be promoting for Doctor Xtreme while I am there, and my Pet is even going to fly out. This is going to be SO much fun!

An Island Adventure

Coconut trees above the charming little bar on the beach in Koh Samui.

Coconut trees above the charming little bar on the beach in Koh Samui.

I met this girl in Korea who was nervous about sleeping with a girl because she was from a Muslim country and had been taught that such things were wrong. I was all kinds of into her, but she was not ready to play with me.

However, she agreed to meet me in Thailand on an island called Koh Samui. I flew there from Bangkok, and we met up. She’s a fun, adventurous, amazing girl and I was super-excited to have a weekend at the beach with her.

We did the things you do on an island, like swim hand-in-hand in the ocean and lay around on the beach. We went to a dance club too, which is not the sort of place I belong, but I had a good time.

And then we went back to my awesome spider-themed hotel room…

The Loft at Koh Samui has cool spiders everywhere!

The Loft at Koh Samui has cool spiders everywhere!

Somewhat drunk, we stumbled into the hotel room late at night. She crawled into bed with me and I wasn’t sure what was going to happen, until she kissed me. Her lips were full and soft, and I was immediately turned on. She pressed against me and wrapped her legs around mine, squeezing with her thighs. She started to grind against me, and as I kissed her and moved against her, she whispered “I want you to bite me as hard as you can.”

I bit her neck and her breasts, and she shivered against me in the most amazing way. She started to make these adorable gasping noises as I bit lower and lower. Then I began to lick her. As I did so, I slipped my fingers inside her and rubbed her g-spot. I saw her press a pillow over her face then, as though she didn’t want to wake the neighbors.

Suddenly, her whole body convulsed and as she came  and she wrapped herself around me in this amazing way. She whispered sweet things to me in her accented English. She said “You fuck me so good I had to bite the pillow!” Then she thought for awhile and said “I’m glad I decide to fuck my first girl, and I’m glad it was you.” I giggled and held her while she fell asleep.

It wasn’t all that kinky (though she had some very big bruises from the biting in the morning.) But it’s always fun to be a girl’s first girl. They’re so impressed with the feel of a soft face pressing against their own soft face, and breasts pressing against breasts… so many new and wonderful things!

I left Thailand the next day, but it was the prefect end to a very nice trip in a very beautiful country.

The harbor on Koh Samui.

The harbor on Koh Samui.

One More Thailand Post

The Airport in Bangkok

The Airport in Bangkok

A while ago I wrote about looking for the kink scene in Thailand. Sadly, I didn’t find kink.

What I did find was all the things Bangkok is famous for. Yes, there are huge markets full of people selling fake college degrees and scorpions to eat. There are lady-boys and prostitutes and wives for sale. And, there are ping pong ball shows and various other strange diversions.

So one hot, sweaty night in Bangkok, I was on Khoa San Road. It’s a famous spot where tourists gather, and where there are a lot of bars and clubs. A tuk-tuk driver came up to me and showed me a menu. It only had a few things on it. There was “Fish in Pussy,” “Eel in Pussy,” “Smoking Pussy,” and a few others.

I should mention that when I came to Thailand, I had no plan for what I would do. I showed up with the idea that I would go where the day took me. Sometimes I followed tourists around. Sometimes I hung out with locals. But every day, I went wherever the day took me. When the tuk-tuk driver showed me the menu, I decided the day was taking me to see a sex club.

Before I continue I want you to know that I feel really bad for going to a sex club in Thailand. I used to work at a Thai restaurant in the USA with a mail order bride. And I read Night Market to learn more about the sex trade in Thailand. I feel awful supporting such a huge, terrible industry. I am a bad person for going to see a ping pong show, and I do know that. Okay; so now that that is cleared up, here’s what happened…

We got to the club and the tuk-tuk driver told me he would stay outside. I walked into the building he gestured to, and it looked a little like a strip club. At the moment I walked in, there was a girl on stage with ping pong balls. An older lady came up and asked me what I wanted to see. I told her (from the menu) that I wanted to see an Eel show. I paid her 600 baht, which is about $20 US. It doesn’t sound like a lot, but it is. I was living very comfortably off of 100 baht a day for most of my time in Thailand.

The older lady took me to a private room and a woman came in with eels in her pussy. I mean; I didn’t know that. You couldn’t see them or anything. She was wearing a stripper-like outfit and she just pointed to the chair and told me to sit. Then she got on the bed, spread her legs, and pushed live eels out of her pussy.

You know, I was going to go into details about the eels… but it really ruined hentai for me and it was pretty tragic. The whole experience kind of made me sad. I felt really bad for the girls that worked there.

I guess the moral of this story is; don’t go to a brothel unless you can handle it. I am still feeling far to guilty about that night to describe it in too much detail. I’m not even sure the girl was 18. She looked really young. So… yeah. That’s the trouble I got into in Thailand.

Pegging

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I was asked recently by a girl about how to peg her boyfriend. I’m just going to throw a few quick suggestions out there…

First, let me get the obvious stuff out of the way:

– Keep your toys clean. Wash and sterilize after each use.

– Lube. Buy some. Use it.

– Butt plugs help. If your sub wears them, it will be easier to let your strap-on slide in.

– Mess happens. Let’s be mature about a little poo here and there.

So you feel ready. You bought a strap-on (the cheap ones suck so get something good!) You practiced on your own putting it on and taking it off. Maybe you even tried the dildo on yourself. You feel prepared.

Now let me tell you that you are not prepared. There’s no exercise I’m aware of that uses the same muscles as fucking someone with a strap-on, and because your body is not designed for it, you’re going to wear yourself out pretty fast. That’s okay. Take the dildo out of the harness and use your hands if you want. Make him get on top and fuck himself if you’d rather. Don’t be discouraged if you can’t fuck for that long at first, because everything takes practice and that’s okay.

I think at first I encountered a host of problems from soar muscles to the ick factor of cleaning a little poo off the end of the dildo after. I think at first, I was nervous about the moment you stick it in, when they gasp.

However, that was just the first few times I did it.

Several pets later, I’ve really come to love pegging. The main reason is the sounds guys make. See, usually when a guy is fucking a girl he’s pretty quiet because he’s concentrating on the way he’s moving and all that. But when a guy is getting fucked, he has nothing to do but lay there and take it. That’s when they moan. I have really come to love that sound. The way they look, all helpless and cute… and the way you’re able to control the sounds they make by how hard you fuck them… it’s really all a lot of fun.

So yes, I know at first a lot of girls sort of shy away from the idea. I get that. But you can do it, and you will come to love it. Just be mentally prepared for the complications you may face, and keep an open mind. Because after awhile, I think you’ll come to find that it’s a lot of fun.

My Last Night At Club Desire

My boot in his back

My boot in his back

Pet said I should write about my last night at Club Desire. I wasn’t sure it was good material for a post, but it was fun. Anyway I love Pet, so I decided I would write about it.

We spent the whole day at Everland, which is like Korean Disney Land. We were really tired after walking around the park all day. But, I’d never taken Pet to Club Desire and he really wanted to go. So I thought; “What the hell?”

We made a reservation in English, which I have had trouble with in the past. I guess it was just lucky that someone who spoke English answered the phone.

When we got there, the bartender remembered me. I was pretty impressed with that, until I realized they don’t get many non-Koreans. He seated us at a couch in the middle of the room. I imagine that was to show us off. (Hey check this out, today we have foreigners!) We got a whiskey bottle set for 170,000 Won. The cheapest thing is a beer set for 130,000 Won, but I wanted whiskey.  And then, we waited for the club to fill up.

Now, I am told that Club Desire is busier on Fridays, but I have only been there on Saturdays. This didn’t happen to be a busy Saturday, so the club only filled up about halfway before people started having sex. I’m going to go ahead and admit that I like to show off, and that I actually had a lot of fun this trip to Club Desire because Pet is really pretty and fun to show off. He was the only one in the club with six-pack abs. Also, not to stereotype, but Koreans are typically a little smaller on average than American guys. And Pet happens to be a bit bigger than your average American (about 10 inches.) So, I was kind of looking forward to the looks I expected us to get.

I should mention that I love to perform. I grew up on the streets, on couches, and in garages. My boyfriend at the time and I were never anywhere private. But you know how it is with teenagers; his dick was metal and my pussy was a magnet. We fucked all the time. We always pulled a blanket over us, but everyone would watch anyway and try to guess at what was going on.

“Oh, looks like he’s going down on her. Let’s see if she can keep from screaming…”

It’s kind of embarrassing to look back on, but my 16-year-old self just didn’t care because my boyfriend was amazing and I was in love with him and the orgasms he gave me.

So Pet and I were seated in the center of the room in Club Desire, and I told him to take his clothes off. Then I started to play with him. He got hard right away from the excitement of being watched, and from seeing all the couples around us having sex. I ran my hand up and down his cock slowly, while sucking on the tip. I tried to do it in such a way that I wasn’t blocking anyone’s view, so that all 10 inches of my Pet were clearly visible.

Our eyes do not often meet, because Pet and I are not the sort to gaze longingly into someone’s eyes. Certain moments though- eye contact can be very powerful. I got on my knees on the floor and looked up at him as I licked his cock playfully. He looked down at me and he grinned.

“You love this, don’t you?” he asked.

I’m not sure he realized what a show-off I am before that moment.

He pulled me up onto our couch then and started to fuck me. I tried not to cry out too loud, (because Korean girls don’t scream much and I didn’t want to be rude) but I couldn’t really help myself. I could feel the eyes on me. I imagined the Korean girls thinking I must be in pain, to have something so big inside of me. And I whispered to pet then;

“When you’re about to cum, pull out. I want you to cum in my mouth.”

It was like my words broke some resolve he had to last longer, because almost instantly he pulled out and I sucked his hot cum into my mouth. I smiled as I imagined the thoughts of everyone whose eyes were upon us.

I laid back to relax, but not Pet. While I enjoyed a whiskey and coke, his eyes darted around the room watching the other couples. He fixed on a girl next to us and made a “swap” motion with his hands.

Now of course, at Club Desire, you’re meant to negotiate swapping through the bar tender. However, I don’t think Pet could contain himself, and in any case, the couple seemed fine with it. The guy came over to our couch, and Pet went over to theirs. I had a moment where I was unsure what to do, but Pet had no such moment. He started to fuck her, and she grabbed her husband and whispered that it hurt. He held her tightly and told her over and over “It’s okay…”

I watched, sort of confused. I couldn’t tell if she was serious about being in pain or if she was just being dramatic. But I figured, since her husband was holding her with both arms while Pet fucked her and he didn’t tell Pet to stop, she must be okay. So I amused myself stroking the husband’s small Korean penis and watching. I love the way Pet moves when he’s fucking someone. His muscles ripple and he looks so intense. I watched his arms flex as he pulled her closer, and I couldn’t help but  feel proud. My Pet is so sexy!

Finally, the wife said it was too much, and Pet came and sat next to me again. He looked over at the couple on our other side and did the swapping motion again. The man nodded, and switched places with Pet. I laughed to myself, because Pet was so eager and so excited!

Of course, Pet didn’t stop to say a word to the woman, and just started to lick her. But the man asked where I was from, and we started to talk. He said he was a plastic surgeon and his girlfriend was 40. I giggled as I told him my Pet was 22. We watched them for a moment and laughed. Then he looked at me and said;

“May I lick you?”

How could I say no to that? I laid back and let him reach between my legs and start to touch me and play with me. His hands were so soft I couldn’t believe it, and his tongue was careful but firm. I felt myself pressing closer to him, and soon I was clawing at his back and gasping. When I came, it was sudden and hard. I felt my pussy dripping, because I so rarely have orgasms and it was so good. I trembled for awhile, like jello. Damn, I thought. Man’s got skills. There’s quite a lot to be said for older guys who know what they are going. I ran my fingers through his white hair. It was thick, and utterly sexy.

Then his girlfriend was suddenly on my couch and of course, I reached out to touch her because she was beautiful and right in front of me. She looked shocked, and went back to her own couch. Her boyfriend talked to her, and sent her back. This time, she let me touch her.

I went down on my knees in front of her and started to lick her. I slipped one finger inside of her to rub her G-spot. Then, after awhile, I slipped in two. Even after Pet fucked her, she still felt tight. She squirmed as I played with her. I felt her swell, and then I felt her cum. She made an adorable little sound then, and she hugged me.

The bartender walked over then, to say that the cub was closing. The man asked us to come get breakfast, and we agreed. We walked out of the club and onto the street, where the surgeon’s Land Rover was parked. We hopped in and the girl put on Disco music. She kept reaching back to touch the inside of my leg and grin like a kid in a candy store. It was adorable.

And off we went, driving down the street in Gangnam with two strangers we’d just fucked, in a Land Rover bumping 1970’s American Disco.

DIY BDSM

The creator of this awesome rig

The creator of this awesome rig

So a friend of mine who goes by Hexavier in the scene created a very nice rig to do suspensions from. It sets up easily in a living room, and then stores easily as a few pipes under the couch. I thought it was really cool, so I wanted to write about it.

Here’s what it looks like all set up:

The rig put together

The rig put together

Because it’s made out of very strong pipes, it’s able to hold up to 8,000 lbs.  He states that the working load limit is 1,000 lbs.  I have actually watched him suspend two girls from it at the same time, and it didn’t even move. Its very solid.

So how do you create such a thing yourself? Well, it’s as easily as buying some pipes (go for the thick, strong metal), cutting them to the length you want, and fitting then with some end pieces that either slot or thread together.  His is made from 2 inch black pipe for the support on top and 1 inch black pipe for the legs.  The foot print when setup is 6′ x 6′ x 6′.  The exact dimensions and build could be retrieved from him on Fetlife.  Here’s what the parts look like before being snapped into place:

Note the rubber caps to protect carpet. Good idea!

Note the rubber caps to protect carpet. Good idea!

Again, I’m not likely to build my own suspension rig, since I’m not much of a rope person anyway. Still, I think it’s impressive as hell and Hexavier was great to have at play parties, where he did suspensions for the guests. So awesome!

If you’re into rope, you should totally try designing and building your own rig!

Trying to get in Trouble in Thailand

Inside a temple in Chang Mai

Inside a temple in Chang Mai

So I planned a trip to Thailand because a long time ago in a land far away, I promised a woman who took care of me and was kind to me that I would go there some day. Before I went, I hit up the Bangkok group on fetlife.com to ask what kinky stuff I could find there. I didn’t get any responses though- so make of that what you will.

Anyway, after several weeks I have to tell you; there’s not much kinky stuff to see in Bangkok.

Yes, there are ping pong ball shows (and no I do not have pictures because they don’t allow cameras in the sex clubs- but I will write about my trip to see a pussy with eels in it at some point.) And there are hookers of all kinds. You could buy a wife too, if you wanted. But then, you don’t need to come here to do that. They have websites to order them online. In fact, the woman who I promised I would come here was a mail order bride herself.

So if you want a Thai wife, or a ping pong ball show for tourists, or a ladyboy to do whatever with, you can find it in Bangkok.

Also, you can find about a zillion buddhas because they call it the land of a thousand buddhas for a reason.

A temple in Bangkok

A temple in Bangkok

I tried my hardest to get into trouble. I went on a date with a Hell’s Angel in Chang Mai and asked him to take me to the Mother Of All Dive Bars or anywhere skivvy and fun.  The dive bar was certainly the biggest dive I’ve been in after traveling the world, so I’ll give him that. And yet… no sex shops with whips and chains. No dungeons. And when I asked about kink, everyone just kind of looked at me and then said:  “you mean like a ladyboy?”

I’ll keep searching. I haven’t given up yet! But I have to say, I’ve never had this much trouble finding kinky stuff in any other country in the world. If you know of any kinky spots anywhere in Thailand, you tell me in the comments, okay?

Inside yet another temple; this one in the South

Inside yet another temple; this one in the South